It started last year’s April, when I met Alex. He was introduced from an old friend way back from my former work. He’s 26 years old, from Paranaque. He’s a bar DJ in the same place. He offered another unusual relationship and I accepted! The funny thing is I granted myself a heroic (?) decision even if I am not sure. Suicidal! (ika nga.)
He’s the type that who couldn’t forget to check how I feel on the day. He called when I forget to say my whereabouts. He would come and visit me when I don’t have time to see him. He would fetch me from my work when I had my overtime. And he would grant my wish when I said “I need some space”. It was two months of battling from confusion. I was confused with the idea of making someone’s fool. I knew I like him…but it was all that, just that! Nothing more, nothing less. But there’s something behind my head, I don’t wanna lose him. I want him to be at my side…always. All summer days he was consistently there for me. When he was off from work, he would find time to see me. I was so spoiled.
June, when I met Nico who just live few blocks away from our house. He’s working as a flight attendant. He’s nice and fun to be with. And behind any conversation we had, something was built between us. I knew it was all wrong to have another commitment without finishing the other one yet. But what can I do, I want them both! (Conceitedly) I kept my affair with Nico. I kept it a secret from Alex, not until he found out from my phone.
Mid-July, we’re heading home from Mall of Asia. When I left, I didn’t notice that I also left my cell phone inside his car. Few minutes he drove away from our house, I heard his car’s buzzes. When I got out for him, I saw his angry face but still he holds on it. It was a night of revelation. I told him everything about my affair with Nico that it was an instant feeling that I haven’t controlled. Peccavi…ended, I have sinned. He said, he was hurt, that I betrayed him. And it was true, I hate the fact but there’s nothing could erase how I did. He said how he loves me, and I said how I feel to him. I asked him what he will do when he already found out what I have done. I expect him to end up our relationship but instead, I heard him saying…..
Gago! Bakit akala mo makikipag break ako sayo? Ungas ka! Manigas ka! (laugh) MAhal pa kita kaya tayo parin!
(Stupid! You thought I’ll going to end up our relationship as easy? Idiot! I still love you so you’re still mine!)
December 2007, eight months to be exact of our relationship when I finally found out that I’m falling out of love with Alex. But it doesn’t force me to do disgracing act just to ruin our relationship. I wanted him to know what I really feel but I was confused to let him know not until late month of February. I end up our relationship in the most confusing way. One week before our first year anniversary, he heard the words that killed our time. I knew he hated what he heard, and I knew he would be hurt too. I killed the hope and his love…..
I read in his eyes how hurt he is when I told him that I’m no longer in-love with him. That what a bit of feeling that I gave is already fading. And I can’t stand in a relationship that I knew I am being unfair not only to him but to myself.
I read in his lips how he hated what I had said. I saw his fist how he was angry when he knew I’m breaking up with him. When I hit the line, I thought he would hurt me by words or physically but instead I got a tight hugged from him. Even if I didn’t saw his tears, I knew his heart is crying.
If that makes you happy, I’ll be willing to give it to you. But it doesn’t mean I’m done. You may get out from my arms but only to seek air to breathe on. And if I’ll see you in other’s arms, I will hunt you!
We parted ways, assuring each other that nothing happened that night. That we should still keep our good relationship. He walked away handed with pain. And I was left standing, looking at his back, holding confusions and guilt. I knew he’s here somewhere in my heart but somehow I couldn’t find him yet. Behind my back, loud echoes and deafening whispers of “pagsisisis”….
I knew I love him, but goodbyes are meant to be said so we could be free from a dead relationship. Someday, somehow we will be happy in our own way. Maybe he would find someone who deserves than me. I know he really understands me.
*bear me to spill the truth.